*Alternative Sexuality and Lifestyles
Sexuality
Who you are and what you want…
Each and every person is born with their own unique preferences, ideas, and desires; they should be met with open-mindedness, acceptance, and a sex positive attitude… but that’s not always the case.
Coming of age in a cruel world…
You have the right to be who you are and love whom you love. We live in an exciting time where SOME people are starting to really understand this fact, but, unfortunately, we’re not totally there yet.
If you didn’t grow up in a supportive environment, that shame lives in your heart and creates a lack of confidence, self-sabotage, and strained relationships.
You’re plagued with feelings of, “I’m not good enough.”
You live in fear and anxiety, worrying about people not liking you once they find out who you really are.
Fearing rejection, you blow up opportunities and relationships before they can blow up on you.
You struggle with anger after so many years of feeling that who you are isn’t okay.
Lifestyles
The challenges of sexual expression…
Even if you’re lucky enough to feel good about who you are, the way you express your sexuality can still bring challenges.
“Vanilla” can be wonderful, but it isn’t for everyone. Open relationships, swinging, BDSM, and polyamory can add passion and intrigue to your sex life, but they can also bring unexpected challenges:
“How do I talk to my partner about my boundaries?”
“This is what turns me on. Does that mean there is something wrong with me?”
“How do we make sure that we can still trust each other?”
“What if I’m not comfortable with how far my partner wants me to go?”
“Whenever I’m honest about my sex life, my friends shame me for it.”
“What if I want to go further than my partner does?”
“I’m not sure I’m ready for this, but I’m feeling pressured to jump in. What do I do?”
“We’re first timers with all of this. How do we start exploring?”
Working together for the confidence you deserve…
My approach will empower you regardless of your orientation or lifestyle, to move past those old negative stories to write new, accurate ones. You’ll start living in confidence – just as you deserve.
When we work together, I will help lift your limiting/self-shaming beliefs, identify deal breakers and how to have the conversations necessary to feel safe walking your path.
But before we even get there, you have to feel safe with me; safe to share the intimate details of your life and talk about sex with someone that isn’t going to be in your bedroom (or anywhere else you get sexual).
I enter every working relationship with the same philosophy – sex is healthy, beneficial and necessary when it’s consensual – what it looks like, how you do it, when you do it, and with whom is all up to you. No judgement. Period.
Armed with the new trust, esteem, safe boundaries, and communication skills I teach you, you’ll have the best sex of your life.
You deserve happiness and freedom.
It’s your time. It’s your life. Call me now to get started: (818) 971-7155
*One day, I hope never to have to qualify your sexuality or lifestyle as “alternative.” But for now, it’s the language we use in hopes of not needing it in the future.